Noor didn't die because she was in wedlock with a punk whose parents forcefully married to contain him. Even those kind of marriages are lesser evils than 'living in relatioships' which are not being ruthlessly criticised in our urban quarters.
Poster attached below is circulating on social media which triggered few thoughts which I feel obligated to share. A fraction of pathetic people might be marrying their spoiled brats as punitive cum corrective measure but their numbers must be negligible. It is unfair to generalise this as if remaining 99.99% are also practising the same regime. Btw, even if such event comes to pass, it happens with the consent of parents/ guardians of both sides whom Allah and law of the land has made the custodian of their affairs. Both boy and girl might also be asked for their consent. In many cases, such marriages last as well. So, it seems like an arrogant and insolant poster prepared on one of those Aurat Azadi Marches wherein Zahir used to walk along Noor. Such hyena like men (Aides of Ibless) pump up women to break out of the protective layers of religion, society and morals. Once they cross those limits, these perverts pounce on them. Shame on the person who conceived this idea and shame on the woman who holds this poster.
It seems like a diversion from ongoing debate that women should respect our value system which gives loads of freedom and respect via greatest Magna Carta humanity has ever witnessed nearly fourteen and a half century ago. It is a poor attempt to highlight such trivial issues to shift focus from core issues.
Having been around, it can be said with conviction that nowhere in any society of the world, women are protected and respected as much as in ours. Downplaying our social values is a serious betrayal which insecure women do on incitation of Devil. The devil has already done enough damage to the sanctity of family life. Look at the divorce rates. Bickering on gender equality is not going to take us anywhere except more divide and hatred. Man and woman are not equal both physically and emotionally . However, as mother, a woman is three times superior to a father as per Hadith. Book 32, Number 6180:
Abu Huraira reported that a person came to Allah,'s Messenger (may peace be upon him) and said : Who among the people is most deserving of a fine treatment from my hand ? He said : Your mother. He again said : Then who (is the next one) ? He said: Again it is your mother (who deserves the best treatment from you). He said: Then who (is the next one) ? He (the Holy Prophet) said : Again, it is your mother. He (again) said: Then who? Thereupon he said: Then it is your father.
This decree makes it 75% to mother as opposed to 25% of father's share. Still, both genders are not equal, here women are superior.
Women are the light of our homes. Our lives are incomplete without them. They are the jewels of our crowns. Life is beautiful and comfortable in their companionship. They rock in every relationship. It is only that they have to get out of this equality entrapment. Why you want equality when you are superior in so many ways?
May Allah help us live peacefully under the sky as one specie with respect and care.
Godbless
Well put together article
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ReplyDeleteNicely depicted prevailing devils mischiefs. Devil and his advocates are fully active spreading immortality and their activities are at peak.
May ALLAH protect and shower HIS Blessings on all of us.
Excellent sir
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